I Don't Understand This ... (Two Part Question) ..

[Pathetic Loser]

if she dont trust you, then show her the fuckin door and be thankful you found this shit out now before you married her or knocked her up.

your actually lucky she turned asshole so fast, many times it takes until they get the ring.

if that dont work... id be watchin your "buddy", that kind of shit would leave me to think he is looking to get into her panties.

<font color="#330033" size="1">[ March 11, 2002 09:05 AM: Message edited by: Pathetic Loser ]</font>

[ElGRANDPEEHOLE]

OmegaFag,

Let's get two things straight here. First off, the guys night out you speak of, isn't a night of away time from your girlfriends. Why do I know this? BECAUSE YOU AND YOUR BUDDIES ARE A BUNCH OF RUMP RANGERS.
Secondly, the girl you were supposedly dancing with was named Timmy. And from what I gather, from how irate your boyfriend is, you and this peter puffing faggot did exchange bodily fluids.

In other words, I have no advice for you!

<font color="#330033" size="1">[ March 11, 2002 10:12 AM: Message edited by: ElGRANDPEEHOLE ]</font>

[yt1300inHtown]

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You're obviously new here. Let me give you some background.

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Its OK cause he posts on every single thread without ever having anything to offer as a means of pumping up his post totals to look like a seasoned vet.

[R-Jack]

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In other words, I have no advice for you!
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For some reason, this deserves a RACK

[Dr Bob]

Whilst a big fan of security and trust and all that....I do see a point.

If "Guys Night Out" centers around talking to and dancing with other chicks, even if there is no real likelihood of sex or intimacy, could you see how this might be a bit threatening?

I mean, it certainly gives the impression that there is something out there that she can't provide to you.

Face it, you are not married, which means you are still theoretically on the prowl, and every night such as the recent is a chance to move in another direction.

Whatever you may think, dancing and whooping it up with another chick is certainly sharing something special with her, and I could see how this might be taken a certain way.

Put it this way: if a girlfriend was out with the girls and spent the entire evening with some guy, dancing with him, talking, whatever, and gave him a big juicy hug at the end of the night, most guys would feel as comfortable with that as Tipper Gore at a 2-Live Crew concert.

$.02

[Adept]

Your gay aren't you.

Be honest.

What kind of fucksticks have "Guys Nights Out" with designated drivers?

HAHAHA!

Are you in Iowa or soemthing. I am from Canada the land of expanses of snow and 2-storey igloos and shit and we have cabs!

Designated drivers on guys nights out - flamers!

Yeah well he didn't do that and you are running like a little princess. I say yell at her "NOTHING HAPPEND ALRIGHT", Castrate your friend so he can technically no longer be a part of "Guys almost party nights", and then turn the tables on the ladies and ask her why she called your bud and not you.. or something.. just put her in the shit!

I can't believe that:

OV: "Yo, are we gonna party HARD tonight!"
LF (Loser friends): "Yeah man. I am gonna be drinkin Canadian beer"
OV: "Ohhh.. your gonna be so wasted"
LF: "Yeah and i am gonna wear my new stiletto heels"
OV: "Cool, i am gonna wear my new pink dress"
LF" "Is jack - tee hee - i mean janet gonna be DD for this massive party?"
OV: "Well i was last time - and after all - whats a massive fucking rare party opportunity without a designated driver!!!"
LF: "SO TRUE DUDE!! Party hard - oh, i think i broke my hip"

[OmegaVerb]

You're obviously new here. Let me give you some background.

I have two darling daughters and I never drink when I go out. They are worth more to me than the momentary buzz from alcohol.

1. I won't go to jail for DUI.
2. I won't cause an accident.
3. I try my best to avoid accidents.

Simply put, my daughters need a father who is there for them more than I need a drunken night on the town.

So you're goofy little skit, which it wouldn't have made the cut on the worst Kids in the Hall episode, was creative ... it was completely based on your own ignorance. But it's not entirely your fault. Frankly, your parents should shoulder some of the blame for creating you.

Sincerely,
OmegaVerb, Hetero

[Adept]

Hey.. my parents can have all the blame.

If you drink you don't have to drive you know. There are other methods.

Guys night out for you guys should be the late show or some lame shit.

Guys night out IMPLIES drinking!!!

You can have your darling daughters (who i won't cut down because that is imoral) and a alcohol buzz.

You certainly should not have your alcohol buzz and keys to a car, but those are both very different situations.

I think you are doing the male sex wrong when you have a 'guys night out' and everyone doesn't get sloshed.

Does anyone else agree/care? - new thread.

[Friend Of Ours]

As usual, the GF needs the "good thang." How you doll it up is your choice. But your real dilemma is what to do with the weasal "buddy" who ratted you out. What kind of payback is fitting for such backstabbing? Take him out "for a drink," slip him some GHB, take him back to a motel for a homemade movie with a pregnant midget hooker, and enjoy him as your own personal blackmailed slave for a period of two years. Or just kick his ass. But either way, your forgiving of him would show a complete lack of spine on your part, while taking some grief from the GF is just normal.

[Headhunter]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><table border="0" width="90%" bgcolor="#333333" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0"><tr><td width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#FF9900"><tr><td width="100%" bgcolor="#DDDDDD"><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif"><font size=2 face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by OmegaVerb:
Now, if we do go out and don't have a 100% innocent night out, he'll be seen as a liabilty for our "decadance".</font></font></td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE>


Am I the only one who's see's that the emperor has no clothes? If you weren't worried about future indiscetions, this wouldn't be an issue. You know you're likely to cheat on her and your buddy is going to dime you out.


Face it OV, The real issue here is that your boy is going to rat you out when you fuck around on her, and your pissed about that.


Dr. Bob has it right. Whether you engaged in sexual activity with another women or not is mising the point. Your "Boy's night out" has, in her mind, been exposed as having less to do with you spending time with your friends and more to do with you and your friends spending time with other women. Whether you like it or not, she has a point. You said yourself she's not pissed about the time, abscence of attention, or other parts associated with guy's night out. She's pissed because you were out with another woman. Ask her if she thinks it's alright to date other women and you'll get the exact same response, because you were basically on a date with this woman from the bar. Drinks, dancing, conversation... That's a date. You just claim that there was no sex. If you've got seperate rules to the game then she does you might want to clue her in. She just might like to play by your rules.

<font color="#330033" size="1">[ March 11, 2002 01:58 PM: Message edited by: Headhunter ]</font>